What Tee Should I Use? The Complete Weekend Golfer's Guide to Never Feeling Embarrassed on the First Tee Again

Standing on the first tee, you're faced with multiple colored markers stretching back toward infinity. Your buddies are casually discussing which tees to play, and suddenly you realize you have no idea what tee you should use. Sound familiar? Every weekend golfer who wants to improve their own game has been in this exact situation, wondering whether they should follow their ego to the back tees or swallow their pride and move up.

The truth is, choosing the wrong tees can turn what should be an enjoyable round into a frustrating death march that prevents you from ever earning the right to brag about your golf. But when you understand the simple principles that smart weekend golfers use, tee selection becomes one of your secret weapons for finally playing golf that impresses your buddies.

This complete guide covers both tee box selection (where you play from) and golf tee selection (the little pegs you use), giving you everything you need to make confident choices that support your journey from weekend hacker to the golfer who figured it out.

The Two Types of Tees That Confuse Weekend Golfers

Before we dive into the solutions, let's clarify exactly what we're talking about when we ask "what tee should I use?" Fellow weekend golfers face two distinct tee decisions every time they play:

Tee Box Selection: Which colored markers should you play from on each hole? This affects the total course length and difficulty you'll face.

Golf Tee Selection: What type and height of tee peg should you use when hitting off the tee box? This affects your ball height and contact quality.

According to USGA research, 75% of female and 50% of male golfers regularly play from tee boxes that are too far back for their hitting distance. Meanwhile, most weekend golfers never think twice about their golf tee selection, missing easy opportunities to improve their driving consistency.

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The result? Rounds that feel impossibly difficult, scores that never improve, and the nagging feeling that you're not cut out for this game. But once you master both types of tee selection, golf becomes significantly more enjoyable and your buddies start asking what you've been working on.

The 5-Iron Method: How Smart Weekend Golfers Choose Tee Boxes

The most reliable method for tee box selection comes from golf professionals and has been validated by thousands of weekend warriors: the 5-iron method. Here's how it works:

Step 1: Determine your honest average 5-iron distance (not your best shot, but your typical result)

Step 2: Multiply that distance by 36

Step 3: Choose the tee box that most closely matches that total yardage

For example, if you hit your 5-iron 150 yards consistently, you should look for tee boxes around 5,400 yards (150 x 36 = 5,400). This method was developed because, as PGA Coach Heidi Richardson explains, it ensures you'll be hitting a variety of clubs for your approach shots rather than always reaching for your longest irons.

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The beauty of this method is its simplicity. You don't need complex calculations or ego-driven decisions. Just honest self-assessment and basic math that any weekend golfer can handle.

From what I've noticed playing with the same foursome for years, the guys who use this method consistently enjoy their rounds more and actually improve faster than those who insist on playing from tees that are too long for their games.

The Driver Distance Method: An Alternative Approach

Some weekend golfers prefer using their driver distance as a baseline. The PGA of America recommends this formula: take your average driving distance and multiply by 28. Using the same example, if you drive the ball 220 yards consistently, you'd look for tee boxes around 6,160 yards (220 x 28 = 6,160).

This method can be slightly less accurate because driving distance varies more than iron play, but it's particularly useful for golfers who are very consistent with their driver. According to TrackMan data, this calculation aligns well with maintaining proper approach shot distances for most skill levels.

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The key insight here is that both methods aim for the same goal: ensuring you can reach greens in regulation with clubs you're comfortable hitting. As one study found, golfers have the most fun when they can hit approach shots with anything from a gap wedge to a 6-iron, rather than constantly reaching for their longest clubs.

I'm not totally sure why this works so well, but after trying both methods during our Saturday morning rounds, Dave actually asked me what I'd changed about my approach to course selection.

Understanding Golf Course Tee Color Systems

Most golf courses follow a general color-coding system, but weekend golfers should understand what these colors actually represent:

Championship/Black Tees: Typically 7,000+ yards, designed for scratch golfers and professionals

Blue/Back Tees: Usually 6,500-6,800 yards, for low handicap players (0-9 handicap)

White/Middle Tees: Generally 6,000-6,400 yards, for middle handicap players (10-18 handicap)

Gold/Forward Tees: Often 5,400-5,800 yards, for higher handicap players and seniors

Red/Forward Tees: Usually under 5,400 yards, for beginners and those needing shorter distances

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However, don't get trapped by the old-school thinking that associates tee colors with gender or age. As Golf Magazine's research shows, the key is matching the tee to your actual playing ability, not your assumptions about what you "should" be playing.

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This is what separates weekend golfers who understand the manifesto from those who let ego dictate their choices. Smart golfers prioritize enjoyment and improvement over appearing to be something they're not.

Could be just me, but with limited practice time between work and family, choosing the right tees was something I could actually control without changing my swing.

The Ultimate Guide to Golf Tee Selection (The Little Pegs)

Now let's address the second part of the equation: choosing the right golf tee for your shots. Most weekend golfers grab whatever tee is handy, but the type and height of your tee can significantly impact your driving performance.

Standard Wooden Tees: The classic choice, available in 2.75", 3.25", and 4" lengths. They're biodegradable, inexpensive, and tournament-legal. Most weekend golfers do well with 2.75" tees for general use.

Plastic Tees: More durable than wood and offer consistent height thanks to their design. Many feature step-markings to help you achieve consistent ball height. They reduce friction slightly compared to wooden tees.

Brush Tees: Feature flexible bristles instead of a solid top. Designed to reduce resistance and side-spin, which can help golfers who struggle with slicing. More expensive but last longer.

Zero Friction Tees: Similar to standard tees but with a crown-shaped top that creates minimal contact with the ball. Popular among golfers seeking maximum distance.

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For most weekend golfers, standard wooden tees work perfectly well. The key is using them correctly, which brings us to the crucial topic of tee height.

Mastering Tee Height for Consistent Drives

Here's where many weekend golfers lose easy distance and accuracy: improper tee height. According to equipment testing data, tee height affects launch angle, spin rate, and overall distance more than most golfers realize.

Driver Tee Height: Position the ball so that half of it sits above the top of your driver when the club is soled behind the ball. For most drivers, this means using a 3" to 3.25" tee pushed about 1.5" into the ground.

Fairway Wood Tee Height: The ball should sit just above ground level, barely on the tee. A 2.75" tee pushed nearly all the way into the ground works well.

Iron Tee Height: Tee the ball just high enough to simulate perfect lie conditions - essentially ball height should match what you'd see on perfectly mown fairway.

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Professional testing shows that proper tee height can add 10-15 yards to your drives while improving accuracy. It's one of the easiest improvements any weekend golfer can make.

From what I've experienced playing once a week, getting tee height consistent was actually easier than I thought and made a noticeable difference in my driving confidence.

When to Move Up or Back: Reading the Course

Even when you've identified your ideal tee box using the formulas above, course conditions and your current form might dictate adjustments. Smart weekend golfers know how to read these situations:

Move Up When:

• Playing in strong wind conditions that will significantly affect distance
• Course is playing particularly firm and fast
• You're having an off day with ball-striking
• Playing with slower players and want to maintain pace
• Course has especially penal rough or hazards

Move Back When:

• Conditions are soft and distances are playing short
• You're striking the ball particularly well that day
• Course is shorter than your typical home course
• Playing with longer hitters and can maintain pace

Course Condition Factors: Weather and course conditions can affect distance by 10-20 yards per club. Smart weekend golfers adjust their tee selection accordingly rather than stubbornly sticking to one set of tees.

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Remember, the goal is to create an enjoyable, challenging round that allows you to improve your own game. There's no shame in making adjustments based on conditions - it's actually a sign of golf intelligence that impresses more experienced players.

Maybe it's just the way our group plays, but after being flexible with tee selection based on conditions, Tom mentioned it looked like I was really thinking my way around the course.

Common Tee Selection Mistakes That Hurt Weekend Golfers

After researching the habits of struggling golfers and observing countless rounds, certain patterns emerge. Here are the mistakes that prevent weekend golfers from enjoying the game:

Mistake #1: Ego-Based Tee Selection Playing from tees that are too long because you think you "should" be able to handle them. This leads to constant frustration and prevents the enjoyment that attracted you to golf in the first place.

Mistake #2: Following the Group Instead of Your Game Automatically playing from the same tees as your regular foursome without considering whether they match your skill level. This peer pressure prevents you from making decisions that support your improvement.

Mistake #3: Ignoring Course Rating and Slope Not understanding that a 6,200-yard course with a high slope rating can play much more difficult than a 6,400-yard course with a lower slope. Course difficulty involves more than just distance.

Mistake #4: Inconsistent Golf Tee Usage Constantly changing tee heights or types without understanding the impact on your ball flight. Consistency in small details leads to more predictable results.

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Mistake #5: Never Adjusting for Conditions Stubbornly playing from the same tees regardless of wind, weather, or how you're hitting the ball that day. Flexibility is a sign of golf intelligence, not weakness.

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This is what separates weekend golfers who continuously improve from those who stay stuck making the same mistakes year after year. Smart choices in small details add up to significant improvements over time.

I'm not sure if this happens to other golfers, but when I started making smarter tee decisions, the guys in my regular foursome started asking if I'd been getting lessons.

Expert Recommendations: What the Pros Actually Advise

The golf industry has extensively researched optimal tee selection, and the consensus among professionals is clear. According to USGA data involving over 700 PGA and LPGA professionals, 92% believe it's "extremely common" for golfers to play from tees that are too long for their ability.

Heidi Richardson (PGA Class A6 Instructor, Encinitas Ranch Golf Course) with over 26 years of teaching experience, explains: "A common misconception is that the back tees are for the pros, the middle tees for the men, and the front tees for women. The reality is the back tees are for advanced players, the middle for intermediate and the front for beginners."

USGA Official Position: "A set of tees is a good fit for a golfer's ability when it allows them to comfortably reach the fairway on par 4s and par 5s, reach the vicinity of most greens in regulation, and allows them to hit a variety of clubs on their approach shots."

Key Teaching Statistics: According to industry research, 99% of PGA and LPGA professionals believe golfers have a better experience when playing from tees that match their ability. Additionally, 93% believe pace of play improves when golfers choose appropriate tees.

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The data consistently shows that proper tee selection enhances enjoyment, improves pace of play, and accelerates skill development. These aren't opinions - they're evidence-based conclusions from golf's leading organizations.

The Pace of Play Connection

One aspect of tee selection that weekend golfers often overlook is its impact on pace of play. When you play from tees that match your ability, you naturally play faster and more confidently.

Research shows:

• Golfers playing from appropriate tees spend less time searching for balls
• Shorter approach shots mean fewer shots around the green
• Confidence in tee selection leads to faster decision-making
• Groups playing matched tees maintain better rhythm

This matters because pace of play significantly affects your enjoyment and that of other golfers on the course. Fellow weekend golfers who choose appropriate tees are contributing to a better experience for everyone.

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Could be just coincidence, but after our group started using the 5-iron method consistently, we noticed we were finishing rounds about 20 minutes faster without rushing.

Special Considerations for Weekend Warriors

Weekend golfers face unique challenges that daily players don't encounter. Your tee selection strategy should account for these realities:

Limited Practice Time: Since you can't groove your swing daily, choose tees that allow you to play within your comfort zone rather than constantly stretching your abilities.

Inconsistent Play: Your Saturday game might be different from your Sunday game. Don't be afraid to make adjustments based on how you're hitting the ball that day.

Social Dynamics: Playing with different groups means adapting to various skill levels. Have a conversation about tee selection early to avoid awkward situations.

Equipment Consistency: Weekend golfers often play with older or inconsistent equipment. Factor this into your tee selection - don't try to play tees that require perfect equipment performance.

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This is why weekend golfers who live by the manifesto understand that smart course management starts before you hit your first shot. Choosing appropriate tees is the foundation of enjoyable golf.

Building Confidence Through Smart Choices

The psychological benefits of proper tee selection extend far beyond just posting better scores. When you consistently choose tees that match your ability, several confidence-building effects occur:

Reduced Anxiety: You approach each hole knowing you have a reasonable chance of success rather than facing constant survival mode.

Improved Decision-Making: Success breeds confidence, which leads to better choices throughout your round.

Enhanced Learning: When you're not overwhelmed by course length, you can focus on improving specific aspects of your game.

Social Confidence: Nothing impresses your buddies more than a golfer who makes smart decisions and executes them consistently.

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This creates a positive feedback loop where smart tee selection leads to better play, which builds confidence, which encourages continued improvement. You're literally setting yourself up to earn the right to brag through intelligent course management.

It might just be my swing, but after playing from tees that actually made sense for my distances, Dave asked what I'd been working on because my whole approach looked more confident.

Advanced Tee Strategy: Reading Your Playing Partners

As you develop more experience with tee selection, you can help your regular foursome make better choices too. This community-minded approach embodies the manifesto principle of changing the world one round at a time.

Subtle Suggestions: Instead of directly telling someone they're playing from the wrong tees, share your own experience: "I've been using the 5-iron method lately and it's made such a difference in my enjoyment."

Group Planning: Suggest discussing tee selection during the drive to the course rather than standing on the first tee. This removes pressure and allows rational decision-making.

Lead by Example: When you consistently choose appropriate tees and play better golf, others naturally become curious about your approach.

Positive Reinforcement: When someone in your group makes a smart tee choice, acknowledge it positively. This encourages continued good decision-making.

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This approach helps create a culture where intelligent course management is valued over ego-driven choices. Fellow weekend golfers who understand this principle find their regular games become much more enjoyable for everyone involved.

Seasonal and Weather Adjustments

Smart weekend golfers adjust their tee selection based on seasonal conditions and weather factors that affect distance and difficulty:

Spring Conditions:

• Courses often play longer due to soft conditions
• Consider moving up one tee to account for reduced roll
• Factor in potential rust from winter layoff

Summer Conditions:

• Hard, fast conditions may allow you to play longer tees
• Wind patterns can significantly affect club selection
• Heat can impact both ball flight and personal performance

Fall Conditions:

• Wet leaves and soft ground affect roll and footing
• Shorter daylight may pressure pace of play
• Temperature drops can reduce ball distance

Winter Golf:

• Significantly reduced distances due to cold air and lack of roll
• Move up 1-2 tee boxes to maintain similar challenge level
• Consider indoor practice to maintain familiarity with distances

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According to equipment testing, temperature changes of 20 degrees can affect distance by 4-6 yards per club. Smart tee selection accounts for these variables rather than stubbornly sticking to one set regardless of conditions.

The Technology Factor: Modern Equipment Considerations

Today's golf equipment performs differently than clubs from even 10 years ago, which affects tee selection strategy:

Modern Drivers: Higher MOI and lower centers of gravity mean more forgiveness but potentially different optimal tee heights. Experiment to find what works with your specific driver.

Game Improvement Irons: If you're playing modern game improvement irons, you may hit them 5-10 yards farther than older models. Adjust your distance calculations accordingly.

Golf Ball Technology: Modern golf balls travel farther and straighter than older designs. Factor this into your distance assessments when using the 5-iron or driver methods.

Adjustable Equipment: If your driver or irons have adjustable features, optimize these settings first, then determine appropriate tee selection based on your optimized distances.

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The key insight here is that equipment improvements should enhance your golf experience, not complicate tee selection. Use technology to play better golf from appropriate tees rather than trying to play longer courses just because your equipment allows it.

From what I've noticed playing with my old equipment, the guys with newer drivers who still choose smart tees based on their actual distances play much more consistent golf than those who try to take advantage of every yard their equipment provides.

Creating Your Personal Tee Selection System

The final step in mastering tee selection is developing a personal system that works consistently for your game and lifestyle. Here's how to create yours:

Step 1: Assessment

• Track your actual distances for 5-iron and driver over 5-10 rounds
• Note your typical scoring average from different tee sets
• Identify courses and conditions where you play best

Step 2: Calculation

• Apply the 5-iron method (distance × 36) to establish your baseline
• Cross-reference with the driver method (distance × 28) for verification
• Adjust for your personal preferences and course conditions

Step 3: Implementation

• Start using your calculated tee selection consistently
• Track scoring and enjoyment levels over multiple rounds
• Fine-tune based on actual results rather than assumptions

Step 4: Flexibility

• Develop guidelines for adjusting based on conditions
• Create decision trees for unusual situations
• Build confidence in making game-time adjustments

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Step 5: Teaching Others

• Share your system with regular playing partners
• Help other weekend golfers make smarter choices
• Build a culture of intelligent course management in your golf circle

This systematic approach ensures that tee selection becomes automatic rather than stressful. You'll develop the confidence that comes from knowing you're making informed decisions based on data rather than guesswork or ego.

Could be luck, but since implementing a consistent tee selection system, my buddy Mike said it seems like I have a much better plan for each round and rarely look overwhelmed by the course.

Key Takeaways: Master Tee Selection Like a Smart Weekend Golfer

Understanding what tee you should use isn't just about following formulas - it's about embracing the intelligent approach that separates weekend golfers who continuously improve from those who stay stuck in frustration. You're not just learning tee selection; you're living Principle #2 (I Improve My Own Game) and setting yourself up to finally impress your buddies with consistent, confident golf.

The 5-iron method gives you a reliable baseline for tee box selection, while proper golf tee height ensures you're maximizing your equipment's performance. When you combine these with smart adjustments for conditions and group dynamics, you develop the course management wisdom that helps you earn the right to brag about your strategic thinking.

Remember, choosing appropriate tees isn't about admitting weakness - it's about demonstrating golf intelligence. Fellow weekend golfers who understand this principle enjoy the game more, improve faster, and contribute to better experiences for everyone on the course. You're just one round away from discovering how much more enjoyable golf becomes when you make smart tee choices.

Frequently Asked Questions About Tee Selection

What tee should a beginner golfer use?

Beginner golfers should use the forward tees (often red or gold markers) regardless of age or gender. Apply the 5-iron method: multiply your 5-iron distance by 36 to find appropriate total yardage. Most beginners should look for courses under 5,400 yards total length.

How do I know which tee box to play from?

Use the 5-iron method: multiply your average 5-iron distance by 36. The result shows your ideal total course yardage. For example, if you hit 5-iron 150 yards, look for tee boxes around 5,400 yards (150 x 36 = 5,400).

What height should I tee my golf ball?

For drivers, tee the ball so half of it sits above the clubface when the driver is soled behind the ball. For fairway woods, tee just above ground level. For irons, tee just high enough for clean contact. Never push the tee more than 0.5 inches into the ground.

Should I play from the same tees as my buddies?

Not necessarily. Each golfer should play from tees that match their individual ability level. Playing from inappropriate tees hurts your enjoyment and slows pace of play. Use objective methods like the 5-iron calculation rather than following the group.

What's the difference between wooden and plastic golf tees?

Wooden tees are biodegradable, inexpensive, and work well for most golfers. Plastic tees are more durable and offer consistent height markings. Both are tournament legal. For most weekend golfers, standard wooden tees provide excellent performance.

Continue Your Weekend Golfer Journey

Ready to take your manifesto living to the next level? These proven guides help fellow weekend golfers who are serious about improving their own game and earning the right to brag:

• Complete Beginner Strategy Guide
• Course Management for Weekend Warriors
• Essential Equipment Selection
• Building Unshakeable Golf Confidence
• Your Personal Golf Development System

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