Standing on the first tee with your regular foursome, you hear someone say "I'm taking a mulligan" after a terrible drive. Every weekend golfer has been in this situation, but what exactly does that mean? And more importantly, when is it okay for you to do the same thing?
As a fellow weekend golfer who's navigated these waters for over 25 years, I've learned that understanding mulligans isn't just about knowing the definition β it's about mastering the unwritten rules that separate smart weekend golfers from those who embarrass themselves. Whether you're trying to impress your buddies or simply want to enjoy casual golf without the pressure, this guide will give you everything you need to know.
The truth is, mulligans represent one of golf's most fascinating contradictions: they're completely against the official rules, yet they're used by more than half of all golfers in casual play. Understanding when, how, and why to use them properly will help you improve your own game while earning the respect of your playing partners.
A mulligan in golf is essentially a "do-over" β a free second chance to replay a shot without counting the first attempt. While not part of the official Rules of Golf, mulligans have become a widely accepted practice in casual, recreational rounds.
According to expert definitions, a mulligan allows golfers to replay a stroke from the same position as the previous shot without adding penalty strokes to their score. The first (poor) shot is effectively erased from memory, and the golfer continues play from the result of their second attempt.
I'm not totally sure why, but after seeing how mulligans work in our Saturday morning rounds, they seem to make everyone more relaxed and willing to take risks with their shots.
Most commonly, weekend warriors use mulligans on tee shots, especially the opening drive of the day (often called a "breakfast ball"). However, the specific rules vary significantly between different groups of golfers, which is why understanding proper etiquette becomes so important for maintaining good relationships with your regular foursome.
The fascinating origin story of "mulligan" involves multiple theories, but most golf historians agree it traces back to the early 1920s. According to the United States Golf Association, the term likely originated from David Bernard Mulligan, a Canadian amateur golfer who played at St. Lambert Country Club near Montreal.
The most widely accepted version tells of David Mulligan arriving at the first tee after a particularly nerve-wracking drive to the course. After hitting a poor opening shot, he immediately re-teed and hit another ball, calling it a "correction shot." His playing partners found this amusing and decided to name the practice after him β thus the "mulligan" was born.
However, there's a competing theory involving John A. "Buddy" Mulligan, a locker room attendant at Essex Fells Country Club in New Jersey during the 1930s. According to Golf.com's historical research, Buddy convinced his playing partners to give him a do-over after a poor first shot, arguing that they had been practicing all morning while he was working.
From what I've noticed playing with different groups over the years, it doesn't really matter which story is true β what matters is that someone gave weekend golfers everywhere a way to laugh off bad shots.
David Mulligan himself seemed to confirm the Canadian origin story in a 1952 interview, explaining: "I was so provoked with myself that on impulse I stooped over and put another ball down... After that it became kind of an unwritten rule in our foursome that you could take an extra free shot on the first tee if you weren't satisfied with the original."
Here's where every weekend golfer needs to understand the distinction: mulligans are absolutely not legal under the official Rules of Golf. The USGA Rules make no provision for mulligans in any competitive or official round of golf.
According to Golf Link's comprehensive analysis, more than half the golfers in the United States admit to bending the Rules in one way or another, and mulligans represent a huge part of that rule-bending. The key distinction lies in understanding when and where this rule-bending is appropriate.
Could be just me, but after playing both strict rules golf and casual rounds with mulligans, I've found that most weekend golfers save their serious golf for tournaments and let loose during friendly rounds.
If you're playing in any competition, keeping an official handicap, or playing for money, mulligans should be completely off the table. As Phil Kenyon (specialist putting coach to Rory McIlroy, Brooks Koepka, and Justin Rose) explains in his instruction: "The integrity of the game depends on every shot counting, especially when something's at stake."
However, in casual rounds with friends, mulligans serve a different purpose entirely. They can speed up play, reduce frustration, and help maintain the social aspect that makes weekend golf so enjoyable.
The Rules of Golf do allow you to replay a stroke from the spot of your previous stroke at any time β but with one penalty stroke added. The difference between this legal option and taking a mulligan is simple: the legal replay adds two strokes to your score (original attempt plus penalty), while a mulligan adds zero.
Understanding when to take a mulligan separates weekend golfers who get it from those who don't. According to Golf Digest's comprehensive analysis, there are specific situations where most golfers consider mulligans not just acceptable, but expected.
The most universally accepted mulligan is the "breakfast ball" β a do-over on the very first tee shot of the day. This is especially reasonable if you're rushing to the first tee without proper warm-up. Even serious golfers often allow this courtesy, recognizing that the first swing of the day rarely represents anyone's true ability.
In my experience playing weekend golf, most groups automatically offer breakfast balls because everyone understands that feeling of stepping up cold to the first tee.
Other widely accepted mulligan situations include:
However, there are clear situations where asking for a mulligan shows poor etiquette:
Brian Henninger (veteran PGA Tour professional and instructor) advocates for testing yourself: "There are exceptions if you're playing some alternative formats agreed upon before you play, but there's nothing worse than playing with ignorant players who don't understand the basic integrity of score."
The beauty of mulligan rules lies in their flexibility, but this also creates the most confusion for weekend golfers. Every group develops its own unofficial code, and smart golfers learn to adapt quickly to different expectations.
According to research from multiple golf instruction sources, here are the most common mulligan formats used by recreational golfers:
The "One and Done" Approach: Each player gets exactly one mulligan per nine holes, usable anywhere except on the putting green. This creates strategic decisions about when to use your precious do-over.
The "Breakfast Ball Only" Method: Mulligans are limited exclusively to the first tee shot of the day. This satisfies the warm-up concern while maintaining scoring integrity for the rest of the round.
The "Tee Box Special": Mulligans can only be used on tee shots throughout the round, never on approach shots, chips, or putts. This speeds up play while still allowing relief from the most visible mistakes.
It might just be my foursome, but we've found that setting clear mulligan rules on the first tee prevents any awkwardness later in the round.
Some groups embrace more creative variations:
The key insight from professional instructors is that successful groups discuss and agree on mulligan rules before anyone tees off. This prevents the uncomfortable situation where someone assumes mulligans are okay, only to discover their playing partners disapprove.
Understanding group dynamics means reading the room: if you're playing with new people, it's better to ask about their mulligan policy than to assume anything.
Every weekend golfer who wants to earn the right to brag needs to understand the situations where mulligans cross the line from helpful to harmful. According to comprehensive analysis from golf instruction experts, there are five critical scenarios where mulligans should be completely off-limits.
Handicap and Scoring Integrity: If you're keeping any form of handicap β whether official USGA or unofficial tracking through apps β mulligans must be abandoned. As stated in USGA guidelines, scores reported for handicap purposes must follow the Rules of Golf exactly.
Even with unofficial handicaps, weekend golfers need to ask themselves: what's the purpose of tracking improvement if you're only recording legitimate scores when it's convenient?
Competition and Money Games: The moment something's at stake β whether it's a couple dollars from your buddies, a tournament entry, or club championship qualifying β mulligans should immediately disappear. Tournament golf demands that every shot counts, and smart weekend golfers understand this distinction.
Personal Milestones: Nobody wants to celebrate breaking 100, 90, or their personal best score with the caveat "with three mulligans." Achieving legitimate scoring milestones requires clean scorecards without any do-overs.
Could be just coincidence, but I've noticed that the most respected golfers in our group are those who achieve their milestones the hard way, without any asterisks.
Pace of Play Issues: If there are groups waiting behind you, taking multiple mulligans becomes inconsiderate. Weekend golfers who live by the manifesto understand that maintaining proper pace shows respect for other golfers on the course.
Pattern Development: Perhaps most importantly for long-term improvement, relying too heavily on mulligans can prevent you from learning to play golf as it lies. Tour professional insights suggest that dealing with bad shots develops mental toughness and course management skills that mulligans eliminate.
As Butch Harmon (former coach to Tiger Woods, Phil Mickelson, and Ernie Els, Golf Digest's #1 instructor) explains: "Learning to score despite imperfect shots separates good golfers from those who stay stuck at the same level."
Mastering mulligan etiquette separates weekend golfers who impress their buddies from those who create awkward situations. After 25 years of weekend golf, I've learned that the unwritten rules matter more than any official guidelines.
Rule #1: Never Ask, Always Offer - The golden rule of mulligan etiquette is simple: don't ask for mulligans for yourself, but freely offer them to others. When you see a playing partner hit a terrible shot, saying "Go ahead and hit another one" shows generosity and builds goodwill with your foursome.
Rule #2: Establish Ground Rules Early - Smart weekend golfers discuss mulligan policies on the first tee before anyone swings. This prevents uncomfortable situations later when someone assumes mulligans are acceptable. A simple "Are we playing breakfast balls today?" sets clear expectations.
Rule #3: Read the Room - If you're playing with new people or being hosted at someone else's course, err on the side of caution. Wait to see how the group handles questionable shots before making any assumptions about their mulligan tolerance.
From what I've experienced with different golf groups, the most respected players are those who offer mulligans generously but rarely take them for themselves.
Rule #4: Limit Frequency - Even in groups that allow mulligans, taking too many makes you "that golfer" everyone avoids playing with. One mulligan per nine holes (or just the breakfast ball) maintains the balance between improvement and integrity.
Rule #5: Timing Matters - If groups are waiting behind you, skip the mulligan and keep play moving. Course management includes understanding when speed of play takes priority over personal improvement.
Professional instructor insights from Jon Tattersall (GOLF Top 100 Instructor) emphasize boundaries: "A roving mulligan is just 'taking the piss,' as we say in England. At that point, you're not playing, you're practicing."
The most successful weekend golfers understand that mulligan etiquette reflects your character on the course. Fellow golfers will remember how you handle these situations long after they forget your scores.
Weekend golfers who want to add variety to their rounds can explore different mulligan-based formats that make casual golf more entertaining. Understanding these variations helps you suggest fun alternatives when your regular foursome wants to try something new.
The Breakfast Ball: The most common and widely accepted format allows one mulligan on the opening tee shot only. This addresses the universal weekend golfer challenge of stepping up cold to the first tee without proper warm-up.
Mulligan-Recall Games: This creative format gives each player one mulligan (do-over for bad shots) and one "recall" (forcing opponents to replay good shots). According to golf betting game experts, this creates fascinating strategic decisions throughout the round.
Could be luck, but when we tried mulligan-recall for the first time, it completely changed how aggressively everyone played their approach shots.
Charity Tournament Mulligans: Many charity events sell mulligans as fundraising tools, typically offering packages of 2-4 mulligans for $10-20. These events recognize that mulligans can make golf more enjoyable for amateur players while supporting good causes.
The Gilligan (Reverse Mulligan): As reported by Golf.com's analysis, some groups use "gilligans" β forcing opponents to replay successful shots. This adds a mischievous element that can be wildly entertaining in the right group.
Progressive Mulligan Systems: Advanced formats allow players to earn additional mulligans through achievements: making par after taking a mulligan, hitting greens in regulation, or sinking long putts. This rewards good play while still providing safety nets for poor shots.
These variations work best when all players understand and agree to the format before starting. Weekend golfers who master multiple formats become valuable additions to any foursome because they can suggest appropriate games for different skill levels and personalities.
Understanding how mulligans impact your long-term development as a weekend golfer requires honest assessment of your improvement goals. While mulligans can serve legitimate practice purposes, they can also create habits that prevent real scoring improvement.
The Practice Benefit: When used strategically, mulligans can function as on-course lessons. Sean Foley (PGA Tour instructor, former coach to Tiger Woods and Justin Rose) suggests that immediate do-overs help golfers feel the difference between poor and good swings while the sensation is fresh.
Taking a mulligan after a terrible drive, then immediately hitting a solid second drive, creates muscle memory connections that weekend golfers might miss if they had to wait until the next tee to try again.
The Mental Game Challenge: However, relying too heavily on mulligans can prevent development of crucial mental game skills. According to sports psychology research, learning to execute shots under pressure β knowing you only get one chance β builds the mental toughness that separates good weekend golfers from those who stay stuck.
Not sure if this makes sense, but after playing a few rounds without any mulligans, I noticed I became much more careful with my club selection and course management.
Course Management Skills: Perhaps most importantly, mulligans can mask poor decision-making. When you know you can take a do-over, you might attempt shots that are beyond your skill level rather than playing smart, percentage golf. Smart course management develops when every shot counts.
Statistical Reality: Data from recreational golf studies suggests that golfers who eliminate mulligans see faster improvement in their actual scoring average, even though their initial scores may be higher. The pressure of knowing every shot counts forces better preparation and decision-making.
The key insight for improvement-focused weekend golfers: use mulligans as learning tools in practice-focused rounds, but eliminate them when you want to measure genuine progress or work on mental game development.
This comprehensive guide covers golf rules and etiquette that every weekend golfer should understand, including when informal practices like mulligans are appropriate
Weekend golfers encounter several other informal "do-over" situations beyond traditional mulligans. Understanding these related concepts helps you navigate the full spectrum of casual golf practices that your regular foursome might encounter.
Gimmes and Conceded Putts: Unlike mulligans, "gimmes" are putts that your playing partners concede, meaning you don't have to actually hole out. Short putts within the "leather" (length of your putter grip) are commonly conceded in casual play, though never in competitions.
Breakfast Balls vs. Mulligans: While often used interchangeably, some golfers distinguish between "breakfast balls" (specifically the first tee shot redo) and "mulligans" (any do-over shot). The breakfast ball concept acknowledges that most weekend golfers arrive at courses with minimal warm-up time.
Winter Rules and Preferred Lies: During poor weather conditions, many courses implement "winter rules" allowing players to improve their lie in the fairway. While not the same as mulligans, these represent another example of golf's flexibility in casual play versus strict tournament conditions.
My guess is that most weekend golfers encounter some combination of these informal practices, which is why understanding the full spectrum helps maintain good relationships with different groups.
Provisional Balls: The one "do-over" that IS legal under official rules occurs when you hit a provisional ball for a shot that might be lost or out of bounds. This isn't technically a mulligan because you're adding strokes, but it serves a similar practical purpose of keeping play moving.
Gallery Rules and Foot Wedges: Some casual groups employ "gallery rules" (ball moves toward hole after hitting trees or other objects) or allow occasional use of the "foot wedge" (kicking ball to better position). These practices, like mulligans, exist in the gray area between official rules and social golf enjoyment.
The common thread connecting all these practices: they're acceptable in casual play with group agreement, but completely inappropriate in any competitive situation. Smart weekend golfers learn to read their audience and adapt accordingly.
While weekend golfers regularly use mulligans in casual play, understanding how they're viewed in professional and competitive golf provides important context for when and where they're appropriate in your own game.
Professional Golf's Zero Tolerance: No mulligans exist in professional golf, period. According to PGA Tour standards, every shot counts exactly as played, with specific penalty procedures for various situations but never free do-overs.
However, there is one interesting exception that has occurred in professional play: Rule 6.2b allows players to retee without penalty if they accidentally move their ball during practice swings while on the tee box. This has happened to tour players like Zach Johnson and Michael Campbell, providing what looks like a "mulligan" but is actually legal under specific circumstances.
Amateur Tournament Standards: Even in amateur competitions, from club championships to USGA events, mulligans are strictly forbidden. Players who take mulligans in competition face disqualification, making it crucial for tournament-minded weekend golfers to practice playing by strict rules.
Charity Tournament Flexibility: The main exception occurs in charity tournaments, where mulligans are often sold as fundraising tools. These events prioritize enjoyment and charitable giving over strict adherence to rules, creating situations where recreational and competitive standards blend.
Could be just the groups I've played with, but it seems like golfers who regularly compete in tournaments are much more disciplined about avoiding mulligans even in casual rounds.
College and Junior Golf: Competitive junior and college golf maintains strict no-mulligan policies, helping develop players' mental games and teaching them to manage pressure situations where every shot counts.
The key insight for weekend golfers: understanding that mulligans exist only in the recreational realm helps maintain proper perspective about when and where they're appropriate. This knowledge also helps when you transition between casual rounds and more serious golf situations.
Every weekend golfer who wants to improve their own game eventually faces the question: when should I stop relying on mulligans and start playing every shot as it lies? The answer depends on your specific goals and where you are in your golf journey.
Breaking Score Barriers: If you're serious about breaking 90 or achieving other scoring milestones, eliminating mulligans becomes essential. According to golf instruction data, players who eliminate mulligans see faster improvement in their actual scoring average because they're forced to develop better course management and mental game skills.
Developing Mental Toughness: Tour professional insights consistently emphasize that dealing with bad shots builds the mental resilience that separates good weekend golfers from those who stay stuck. When you know you only get one chance, your pre-shot routine becomes more thorough, your club selection more careful, and your commitment to each swing stronger.
Practice vs. Play Distinction: Sean Foley (PGA Tour instructor) suggests creating clear distinctions between practice rounds (where mulligans can serve as learning tools) and scoring rounds (where every shot counts). This approach allows you to benefit from mulligan-based learning while still developing competitive skills.
It might just be my swing, but after playing several mulligan-free rounds, I noticed I became much more selective about when to be aggressive versus when to play it safe.
Handicap Integrity: If you maintain any form of handicap β official or unofficial β mulligans must be eliminated from scored rounds. Even informal handicap tracking loses meaning when you're only recording legitimate scores during easy conditions.
Building Confidence: Paradoxically, many weekend golfers find that eliminating mulligans actually builds confidence over time. When you know you can handle bad shots and still score reasonably well, golf becomes less stressful and more enjoyable.
The transition strategy that works best: gradually reduce mulligan frequency rather than eliminating them completely overnight. Start with specific rounds where you commit to no mulligans, then expand as your comfort level grows.
Understanding mulligans isn't just about knowing when you can take a do-over β it's about mastering the social dynamics that make weekend golf enjoyable while maintaining the integrity that helps you improve your own game. As a fellow weekend golfer who lives by the manifesto, you now have the knowledge to navigate any mulligan situation with confidence.
The most important insight from 25+ years of weekend golf: mulligans work best when they enhance the social experience without compromising your long-term development. Smart weekend golfers use them strategically β offering them generously to others, taking them sparingly for themselves, and eliminating them entirely when working toward legitimate scoring goals.
Remember that impressing your buddies comes not from perfect shots, but from understanding golf's unwritten rules and applying them appropriately. Whether you're dealing with a breakfast ball on the first tee or deciding whether to offer a playing partner a do-over after a terrible shot, your approach to mulligans reflects your character on the course.
Fellow weekend golfers who master mulligan etiquette create better experiences for everyone in their foursome. You're not just learning about do-overs β you're developing the social intelligence that makes you someone others want to play with regularly.
The beauty of weekend golf lies in its flexibility. Unlike the rigid requirements of tournament play, recreational golf allows us to balance improvement with enjoyment, competition with camaraderie. Mulligans, when used properly, serve that balance perfectly.
What does mulligan mean in golf? A mulligan in golf is an informal "do-over" that allows golfers to replay a shot without counting the first attempt. While not legal under official Rules of Golf, mulligans are widely used in casual, recreational rounds to maintain enjoyment and reduce frustration.
Are mulligans legal in tournament golf? No, mulligans are never legal in any competitive golf, including professional tournaments, amateur competitions, or handicap rounds. They exist only in casual, recreational play with group agreement.
When is it okay to take a mulligan? Mulligans are acceptable in casual rounds when: all players agree beforehand, you're not keeping an official score or handicap, nothing is at stake (no money or competition), and it doesn't slow down pace of play. The "breakfast ball" (first tee shot redo) is the most universally accepted mulligan.
How many mulligans can you take per round? There's no official limit since mulligans aren't legal, but most recreational groups allow one mulligan per nine holes or just the breakfast ball. Taking too many mulligans is considered poor etiquette and can frustrate playing partners.
Do mulligans count toward your handicap? No, any round that includes mulligans cannot be used for official handicap calculations. USGA handicap rules require strict adherence to the Rules of Golf, which don't allow mulligans.
What's a breakfast ball in golf? A breakfast ball is a specific type of mulligan that applies only to the first tee shot of the day. It's called a "breakfast ball" because it acknowledges that most weekend golfers arrive at courses without extensive warm-up time.
Can you take mulligans on putts? While not common, some casual groups allow mulligans on any shot including putts. However, most golfers limit mulligans to tee shots only, and putting mulligans are generally considered poor etiquette.
Should you ask for a mulligan or wait to be offered one? Golf etiquette suggests never asking for mulligans for yourself, but freely offering them to others after poor shots. This approach builds goodwill with your foursome and demonstrates understanding of proper golf courtesy.
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